From Networking, to accidental A-B test AIs...
Coached by coaches on coaching...
Mar 30, 2026 · 6 min read

I've been attending coaching for coaches (not the name of a group) which is helping me deepen & widen my Creativity Coaching that I do along with line & dev editing…
The networking w these folks (almost all "Life Coaches", an occupation who'd mention used to cause me to audibly groan) has been amazing. They are lovely people who have come thru some very rough times, and once on solid ground on the other side, decided they wanted to offer a hand to others so they could make it thru the weedy trenches, too.
So, at the "Reset" meeting we had recently, we had the opportunity to take a quiz that the host had setup for us in chatGPT, but bc I (and suddenly, many other folks) don't use Open AI, they graciously gave us the GPT instructions to paste into Claude - as well as a lovely WB format ready-to-print!
Below are the final outputs from both of those AI titans, after I answered the 20 open-question survey.
The way there are phrases that are verbatim, and yet they differ in some fundamental ways is… eerie.
Not quite uncanny valley, because if you sit two humans in separate rooms, and have them listen to a script describing a solopreneur's (they've never met) journey over the past Quarter… Once they leave that room and are asked to voice record their understanding of the story they heard - while they will get overlapping key info correct - their insights & advice will be drastically different - because they've lived different experiences from different perspectives.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on any of this - the AuDHD keeps me analyzing bc I want to keep learning and understanding - and it's not as efficient in an echo chamber.
✨ The Season You’ve Lived (chatGPT)
I stepped into this year wanting to become more of who I really am — to use my talents, to create, and to be valued for the truth of who I am.
Things didn’t move as fast as I expected. Money has been tight, and progress has felt slower than I wanted. But even inside that, I stayed. I kept showing up.
I found myself in environments I thought I might outgrow, but instead, I discovered connection. I realized I can settle into things and still make them my own.
Without trying to, I became someone people look to. I didn’t chase leadership, but I embodied it — and people responded. They trust me. They value me. They’re even willing to invest in me.
I’ve stretched in ways I didn’t expect. I’ve tested my limits and started honoring them. I’ve learned to say no and mean it. I’ve learned when to speak and when to hold back.
This season has felt like growing up all over again — but this time, I’m aware. I’m choosing it. I’m building a life that actually feels like mine.
I’m proud of how I’ve shown up — consistently, but without abandoning myself. I’ve learned to rest without guilt and return with intention. I’m working with myself, not against myself.
I’ve made bold decisions — stepping into new skills, new relationships, deeper family connection, and putting my work into the world in new ways.
And at the same time, I can see clearly what I’ve been avoiding. Not because I’m incapable — but because it asks me to be seen at a deeper level.
The Season You've Lived (Claude)
I started this year feeling called toward something real — using my talents, becoming who I was meant to be, creating things that would actually connect with people who'd value me for who I am. Not a polished version. Just me.
The job transition crawled. I'm still broke. But I'm settling in, and I actually like my coworkers. My Skool community is growing slower than I'd hoped, and life keeps pulling everyone's attention away. But here's what I didn't see coming: people want me leading. They're willing to pay for my time, my ideas, my guidance. I've never thought of myself as a leader. Power and money have never been the draw. But this? This feels different.
I've grown in ways I didn't expect. I've stepped into heading up this space — and I want to expand it to wider circles of Creatives. I've tested my limits so I could actually set realistic boundaries. I've learned to hold my "no's" and bite my tongue when I need to. Balance. This version of me feels like growing up all over again — a second puberty, a second shot at life. A chance to be happy and experience what I can with the time I have left. And I'm doing it surrounded by an ever-widening set of overlapping circles: new friends, collaborators, mentees, and mentors.
I'm proud of myself for showing up day after day — but also for resting without guilt or apology. I don't ask permission anymore. I just do it, and I come back ready to give maximum effort. My meds have saved my life, but they can't work without me also choosing to put in the work. And I want to.
I've made decisions that shaped this season: I dove into learning online sales, social media, community building, funnels. I launched my first 1:1 offer. I started dating again. I've spent more time with family. But I've also been avoiding decisions: writing my novel. Reaching out to my trainer's leads at work. Publishing my newsletter. Publishing my workbooks. Posting on socials. Publishing. It's literally in my community's name, and I'm still holding back on putting the final work out into the world.
🔮 Your Visibility Archetype
Primary Archetype: 👉 Idea Catalyst
Secondary Archetype: 👉 Status Quo Slayer
🧠 Your Content Stack
Insight Engine:
👉 Synthesis (you connect ideas, see patterns, and expand thinking)
Expression Style:
👉 Expansion + Punch (you go deep—but you’re not afraid to challenge)
Connection Channel:
👉 Community + Conversational
⚠️ Your Misalignment Insight
There’s one key tension showing up:
👉 You have big, deep thinking (Idea Catalyst)
BUT
👉 You also have a strong truth-telling, provocative edge (Status Quo Slayer)
This can create a subtle friction:
You see complex ideas
But you also feel the urge to call things out directly
And if you don’t express that fully → it drains you (which you confirmed)
Translation:
You’re not meant to just “share ideas.”
You’re meant to challenge thinking through ideas.
That’s your power.
🧭 What This Means For Your Content
You are at your best when you:
Expand people’s perspective
Break down flawed thinking
Say what others are avoiding
Turn insights into shifts
Not just information → reorientation
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